How to deal with lame skater boys-失礼なスケーターをうまく交わす方法-

First thing first, I'm not saying every skater boy is dumb or lame.

It's so fun and you can have a good time to be with nice skater boys as friends.

But you know what I mean.

Most of them categolize you as just "a girl to hook up" at first sight. Sad but true.

When you have a party with them, you are going to realize them making eye contact which girl belong to which.

Skateboarding is not just only a sport, but also it's a culture.

Their personalities have some similalities and once you understand their behaior, it will be much easier to deal with them.

Most of them say that they are not looking for a girlfriend because they think having relationship is full of stress for them.

 Why do they think having relationship is full of stress?

The reason is so simple.

They prefer spend time skateboarding over hangingout or makingout with girls during the day.

If they got a girl friend, they need to tell her that they want to skate each time whenever they want otherwise she will ask them to hangout and they don't like it.

BUT, they also like girls at night. That's why they really like to hook up.

And most of cases are just one night stand so nobody needs to tell them that they suck at it.

So it's also the reason why they never improve doing it.

Yea, you girls deserve much better.

Let me tell you how to defense yourself when they tried to have a THING with you.

•  Keep a distance from them so that they will take a hint from you.

Even though you and they just met, they are going to be too touchy.

And they think YOU want it as well.

Ugh. In my case, he even touched my tiny breasts over my clothes.

It was not just a one guy. I'm just curious about why they think it's okay to touch women's bodies so casually without ask or anything.

It's just discusting and clearly they don't have any respect.

• Say directly "I'm NOT EASY and I don't want you to think about me that I'm easy".

Especially for Asians, usually we are thought that we are easy to hook up because they think we never be able to say directly NO and our weakness is White guys.

BULLSHIT. Let them make sure that you just want them as friends.

If we don't notice them that, they think we are looking for a guy for same reason as them forever. They need to learn by themselve but they don't so you just need to make them realize.

After you said this, soooo many dumb guys are going to leave you so that you can find right rare guys to be friends.

• NEVER trust them when they say " I'm DIFFERENT from my crew "

KEEP THIS IN YOUR MIND: HE IS SAME AS REST OF HIS CREW.

I'm sure you are going to have a lot of questions when someone tells you like this.

"How different?" "What makes you think you are different?" "How can I trust you?"

You are not the only one.

I just want to say this loudly: according to me, that is just a trick to hook up with a girl whom they think hard to!

The more you are harder, the more you make them excited.

Also they might say, "I usually don't do this because I'm not that kind of guy"

These phrases are I actuallly got. Eventually, all he want is hook up and dump you and in the end, they act like nothing happened.

What can I call him besides crap bag? 

Once again, not every skateboy is like that.

This is how I found out which guys are right to be friends.

I hope this will help you guys someday.